Never Same As Before

It’s never the same as before. Things change, people change, words change. The person you love yesterday might not even be the same today. I mean think about it. Can we actually fall for anyone’s words for our happiness? It’s a human tendency that we fall for every word whether good or bad said to us. Why do you think people say that we should always be kind in words or say words hurt more than swords.

Now my question is why should we let anyone hurt us? I mean I know what I am, I know who I am. Let’s change the game now. We have to understand this that NOONE can actually really determine who we are. No I have not given that right to anyone! Have you?

If you just sit back and think over this you will realize that what I am saying is true. Isn’t it? Why should this being be in a puzzle and expect others to fix it. For all we might know the one we are calling for help in fixing our puzzle is only jumbling it more.

I am not saying that we shouldn’t have company, all I am saying is we should stop wasting our energies on something which is a mirage and not lose ourselves in anyone’s energy. I am who I am.

It should always be like two pieces of puzzles that fit together, but even if one piece puzzles out the other one is still intact.

The art of gratitude.

Are we all doing it correct?

The art of gratitude is not only for one person. It’s for all to perceive. It begins with getting up in the morning and being able to actually feel that your very existence today is a miracle in itself. For does anyone know if they will live up to see another day on this very planet, do they?

I mean just think about it, can anyone be certain of their existence tomorrow? No, isn’t it? So shouldn’t we all be grateful for our very presence today itself.

It’s not much work to be living with the essence of gratefulness everyday, isn’t it? Doing this will make us realise that we need to cherish our being today itself before it’s too late and we bear away from this world.

Anisha a dear friend of mine breathed her last yesterday not knowing that she would be written out of the script today. It made me realise that we all can depart from this life at any moment. So not just living but savoring every tiny ounce of it is also important because there is a today but there might not be a tomorrow.

So how many amongst us are still taking their life for granted?

I mean think about it are we even taking the art of gratitude seriously? It’s the biggest question one needs of find the answer to.

A little more of me everyday.

What will they say? What will happen if I did this? What will happen if we ain’t together?

Like come on! I am alive today, so let me be a little more of me than of other’s today.

People are so into other’s life that they often forget that they have to be a little more of themselves than of other’s because they alone have to take it to the end.

If I love to do something I make sure I do it today itself. But if I don’t like it I just try to postpone it to tomorrow. If one doesn’t love something they shouldn’t be doing it. Otherwise what is the point of doing something that is not bringing any alluring experience? Because at at the end of the day I don’t want to regret that I didn’t try or regret that it didn’t happen because I was thinking of what other’s will say.

Nah for me it’s just another lesson that I learnt or that i will learn once I do something that I wanted to do.

Waste your energy only when you know it’s not going into a complete waste. READ THAT LINE AGAIN.

Some might like the silence whereas other’s might like the chattering. I love to sit alone and plan things I want to do. Someone else might love to spend time with friends and think of life. Well we all are different with different energies. Alteast by doing the things we love we are more of ourselves. So do the things you love, because why give anything your time when you don’t love it.

TAKE A BREAK !!

Life is something that happens only once. So once a while when the energies around you get you all tensed up and you cannot take it no more, take a BREAK!! It’s not at all a compulsion to keep running in the race and at the same pace as others. Sometimes you just have to hold up, take some rest and breathe. Because life is about you living and not about you competing.

Well things will happen on it’s own and at it’s own time. Can anyone of us at all change anything’s time of happening?

It’s okay if we walk on our own pace and stop and rest for a while. It revives us. It gives us time to think. It clears up our clogged minds. So just cut the tensed energies around you and create peace for yourself. Start engulfing the nature and its truthful energies.

Maybe it’s a reminder for you to take a break buddy and rediscover yourself.

PS: Sorry for the late post. I was on a break.😄

Already enough!

Already enough for what? Already enough for whom? All of you must be thinking that what does this mean.

The answer to all this is “YOU”.

Yes you heard me right. You yourself are already enough for you.

For all the ones who have lost their hopes in life and are depressed and sad about anything and everything, it’s time to stand upright again and make self discoveries. Are you that weak to make your happiness depend anything ?

You alone should be your own happiness. Honey we only have one life to live! Besides I came alone and for sure will go alone, but the span that I lived should not be regretful because of something or someone else, but worthy of every precious time that I have lived on this very earth.

So it’s time to discover the happiness that lies within your very own existence. Start right now. Shift your car of life to the path where only you determine your own happiness. It’s never to late to change things.

The Idea Of Success.

What is your idea of success. Is it something? Or is it someone? Well success is a broad concept, but it is the vision of an individual. No other individual can decide or judge your definition of success. In everyone’s book of Life, the definition of success can vary greatly.

Have you found your definition of success yet? Or are you just waiting for someone else to set a goal for you and tell you this is your success. Don’t be the puppet of someone else’s show. It’s not always necessary to be someone big to be successful. Success is the journey of motivation to reach to something you want, be it big or small.

It is not a compulsion to set only one goal to say that you are successful. Set small goals and achieve them. That itself will be success. Life is small, so celebrate every tiny ounce of success that comes your way. Why only celebrate success once. Articulate multiple goals and take them down your list one by one while enjoying that success that starts to swell within you everytime you achieve a goal. We only get to live once, so goal up. Change perspective on success and the paths to it shall put up on their own. Keep many goals and achieve them. Change your vision, not your path.

The taboo about being a bisexual.

It’s important to clear everyone’s vision about bisexuals before it’s too late. It was yesterday when my friend told me that he was a bisexual and what problems he was facing being a bisexual. I was not surprised on listening to the struggles of being a bisexual, but the truth is that bisexuals are just as equal as straight people are, and don’t deserve to be treated badly or unequally. Being a bisexual is not a curse. I asked my friend that how did his parents take the news. He told me they were pretty upset and kept telling him that it’s just a phase and that he shouldn’t be sharing this with anyone because people will make fun of their family and the values the family has imparted in him.

Listening to this made me think that “Are we really that influenced by the society that we are willing to say that being a bisexual is only a phase ?”

The millennials are very acceptive of every course of life. But the baby boomers carry a mindset that is unacceptable for today’s world.

We are often told by our elders that a male and a female are the only way of creating a new life. But “NO. A male and a male or a female and a female can create the right atmosphere for a child. Infact they can set an example for the other people in the society that are afraid to come out and accept that they are bisexuals.

In India and many other countries it is complicated to express being a bisexual because parents often act very poorly on hearing about being bisexual .

But we all should take the initiative now to understand that being bisexual is not a phase. It’s one’s choice of living their lives and we should be supportive. So don’t be afraid to come out in the society as who you are because we only have one life which cannot be wasted on judgements passed by other’s. So come up above all those judgements and spread your wing’s wide and high!.

Small Life, Limited Fucks To Give.

We all know that we only have one life!

So wouldn’t it be unjust if we did not think about our life and started thinking what others have to say?

We have so much in our mind’s that we need to achieve. But society has so many judgements to pass on to us. So much of negativity they want us to carry.
So, in so much pressure by the society how many Fucks are we willing to give?

Think wisely!!.

Let me make it simple. The more you care what others say, the more disappointment in your life.

The less we care about what everyone has to say or pass on to us, the better. So choose the acquaintance and energy around you wisely. Don’t let the Fucks you gave fuck up your life!!

The best adventure you can take is living the life of your dreams and not of others expectations even if it sometimes disappoints your very own blood relations.

After all, we have limited time in this world.

The Perfect Career? Naah Doesn’t Exist Until….

Yes, you read it correct. There is no perfect career until there is that special touch of happiness in it.

It had been long put in my mind by my mother dear to become a C.A from the time I was a kid. She used to say that “Once you become a C.A, your life will be awe-inspiring my darling”. We all know life would become awe-inspiring irrespective of what path we choose. But here’s the part we better figure out :-” Will the journey of the career we choose also give us the same happiness and alluring experience that the end result of the same journey will give?”. I believe that it’s the journey that ring’s joy and memories lasting for a life time, ultimately leading to what we are running after, happiness. That matters and not the end.

In this one life that we have, we often try to mimic other’s lifestyle thinking that maybe they are more satisfied and content. We are all like Cinderella trying to fit in the shoes of big feet.

I decided not to be one of the sheep in the flock of impersonating sheep’s. So I decided to do what I enjoyed doing. I took “management”. Today I can say that with pride that the experience I have gained so far is alluring. Shouldn’t we all be the owner’s of our own lives and not let other’s lifestyle’s or decision’s dominate or take over our mind’s.

So wouldn’t we all agree that alluring experiences can only be gained when one absorbs the energy and aspect of what they choose. So choose wisely because a career opted without interest or passion is like rowing the boat of life without a paddle.